In many relationships men and women have complained bitterly about how their partners are ignoring them. Some were able to settle their differences and moved on in the relationship while others called it quit.
However, it has been identified that women suffer this a lot than the men. The women are most times at the receiving end when their partner personally decides to have a break. There has been little or no way anyone can understand how the woman or man’s mind work, so there is bound to be clash once in a while.
In overcoming why your boyfriend is ignoring you, NAIJ.com brings you seven ways in which ladies can get back the attention of their partners.
1. SPEND TIME TOGETHER:
As a woman once you notice your boyfriend is giving you little or no attention, the best thing to do is to first identify the reason then try to spend time with him in order to be able to iron things out. By spending time together, you’ll be able to focus on each other.
Instead of having to check each other’s social media handles, watch a movie and try to hang out together. Make a time that’s just for the two of you to be alone together.
2. DON’T NAG:
This should be the last thing anyone should do when trying to settle an issue in a relationship, as this won’t help you achieve anything. If your boyfriend feels like you’re nagging him to pay more attention, he’ll probably get more upset. To him, it doesn’t sound like a legitimate concern to you but rather like you just want to change him but focus on talking to him calmly and seriously about the issue.
3. GO ON A DATE:
This is one of the perfect ways to get his attention back. All you have to do is tell him that you want to hangout and hopefully, he'll get the hint that you want him to set it up. If he doesn't get the hint, then you might have to figure it out yourself. It'll be a small price to pay if the date goes well.
4. FOLLOW HIS LEAD:
If he is ignoring your texts, don’t ask him why he is ignoring them. Do the same don’t text him. Don’t call. Don’t insist. Don’t force things. It’s useless. He will be more interested when he doesn’t hear from you than when you send text after text, trying to get to the bottom of things. Ignoring him makes him wonder where you disappeared to. It forms a million questions in his head. It makes you seem like a puzzle and he will be eager to solve it.
5. MAKE HIM JEALOUS:
Some boyfriends can’t be taught to pay attention to their girlfriends. Now, you really shouldn’t necessarily have to teach your man to take you seriously in the first place. Some guys need a little boost while others will never change.
All the best!
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