A beautiful Kenyan lady identified as Bettern Chero has taken to social media to call out single mothers all over the world. She shared her frustration via her Facebook profile on Sunday, July 15 and her post has gone viral ever since.
According to Chero whose mother was also a single mother, she disclosed that people should stop glorifying single mums because they are losers and majority of them end up raising criminals and sluts as children.
Chero did not end there but further disclosed that although the world sees them as strong women but the sincere truth is that, only the happily married women are strong and mature because they endure a lot from their marriage unlike those who quit are the slightest opportunity they get.
She also said that kudos should also been to men who take up this challenge. Her posts were shared on Facebook in three different parts.
The first post addresses why people should stop glorifying single mothers, the second was about women nurturing their daughters and not misleading them while the last one speaks about having a happy home.
Part of the post reads: “STOP GLORIFYING SINGLE MOTHERS. Before I get to the point of my article, let me state my disclaimer. “I am in no way attacking Single Mothers, myself am a daughter of a single father! Single moms, excluding widows, are generally losers and they have big possibility to raise criminals and sluts you see around. If you’re a single mom these days you’re praised and heralded for your courage and strength in raising a child all by yourself. It’s brave for a woman to take on the responsibility of being able to deal with a bad man that left her and put her in an unfortunate situation. But like most things, women, for the most part, we chose to put ourselves in this situation. Bad men don’t just magically appear in our lives as women. Bad men who leave women don’t just magically change and decide to leave the woman. And there aren’t only bad men to choose from. There are lots of good men out there too. But most single moms don’t want good men. Most single moms don’t know what a good man is. Let’s get back to basics. Women totally we have the upper hand in choosing our partner. This is why men usually ask women out and not the other way around. This is why a man will have s*x with just about any woman and while a woman will not have s*x with any man. It’s supply and demand. It is much easier for a woman to pick up a man than for a man to pick up a woman. And that’s fine and natural. You can’t have unplanned children if sex is planned. Every time you have s*x you have the risk of getting pregnant as a woman. So there is no such thing as unplanned children. Of course there are exceptions like rape. The vast, vast, vast majority of single moms are not exceptions. They are choices that they made to have s*x. So when you have a child as a woman you made the choice to either have the child or to have s*x which has a possibility of creating a child. A child is a choice. Every woman knows her circle and she knows her danger days though during those days you feel to have s*x, stop! It’s not the man’s fault. You chose him. Again, women generally we choose men. Women have the final say on when and when not to have s*x. Many men will do anything or say anything just to have s*x. That’s where choice comes in. You need to sift through the basics. You need to put your big girl thinking cap on and not believe everything you hear. You need to look past the words and into the character of people. You have way more at risk than the man. You also have way more options than the man. You need to be wise about how you proceed. The fact of the matter is, no matter how much a single mother loves her child or how diligent she tries to be, it’s unlikely that she’ll be able to do as good a job of raising her child as a mother and father could have done in her place. People hate to hear that, but it’s true. Incidentally, this isn’t me just talking off the top of my head. Statistics bear this out and show that many of the problems we have in our society, when you look a little deeper, are really caused by the number of out-of-wedlock births we have in this country, majority of suicides are individuals from single-parent households. 75 percent of drug abusers are from single mother parenting, more than half of all youths incarcerated for criminal acts come from single-parent households.”
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