A Nigerian man has taken it upon himself to expose what he called the destructive plan of educated men meant to 'decommission' ladies with great potentials.
According to the young man whose name is Darren Idongesit, he had found himself in a pub among some of his friends, who were mostly university graduates. They were making some statements that he thought he should share especially with the women folks.
Although this was against his belief that private things should be kept private, he couldn’t bring himself to keeping quiet about their evil agenda.
Darren who is also a writer made it known that these educated men were representative of the larger circle of men who were out to ‘decommission’ and destroy ladies who were beautiful, intelligent and just about anyone who had something good going for them.
They planned to do this by courting these women against all odds, getting married to them and impregnating them.Then, they would lead the women on till it was impossible for them to get rid of the pregnancy and dump them.
The young Nigerian who spoke on this matter gave the example of a church lady who fell victim to this evil plan and has been reduced to a struggling single women.
He then went on to issue series of warnings to ladies on this regard. See his full post here:
"Dear Nigerian ladies please be careful who you sleep with because what I heard 'educated' men talk about today is horrifying.
I am one of those few people that will rather be tortured to death before I reveal secrets or identities especially when decency demands so, but I'll not hide this rubbish I heard my educated friends(university graduates) say today at a pub. I had to leave the table when the conversation had degenerated to a level I would never stoop to.
Dear ladies, there are some men out there to decommission you especially if you are beautiful or intelligent in school or career-oriented and independent. There are dangerous men out there who follow women, suffer some humiliation, spend money but their ultimate goal is to get you pregnant then they let you keep it till a time when abortion is impossible. When they know you are finished or now committed to them, they simply deny everything and abandon you.
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One is saying he did 'shoot to kill' on a church girl that was playing hard to get. The girl was so innocent that she didn't know when she was pregnant or her safe days to have s*x, she didn't even know what a male contraceptive looked like or that men spread diseases. That church girl was decommissioned and now a hustling single mother.
Please dear ladies, avoid this hypocrisy - learn s*x education even if you are abstaining till marriage. Learn not to trust men when it comes to your reproductive rights. Learn about contraceptive pills like Postinor 2 so when someone intentionally tries to ruin your life, you know the power is in your hand.
I can excuse the thousands of secondary school boys who unintentionally decommission their classmates because of ignorance but for a man to rubbish a grown up woman, that is just absurd. Talk to your friends who are nurses, pharmacists, doctors etc Always be prepared because there are hitmen out there who derive pleasure in ruining the lives of promising women."
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Many people who read Darren’s words gave their opinions on the issue and many others thanked him for exposing the agenda of these educated men.
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