Ten Traits To Look For In A Prospective Husband

Ten Traits To Look For In A Prospective Husband

The primary reason men and women don’t understand one another are because they don’t take the time to truly try.

Ten Traits To Look For In A Prospective Husband










We have to work to understand where the opposite sex is coming from, and only then are we open enough to commit.  However, after women are ready, some men unfortunately are not.  Fear not, the man for you is out there, but it’s your job to set yourself up for success from the start.  Take a look at these top ten traits women should look for in their future spouse, to ensure an open, honest, fun and lasting relationship.

1. Commitment: To men, the dreaded “C-word” often implies compromise, loss of independence, sacrifice of sexual variety, and financial devastation. Studies show that men today are overwhelmingly hesitant about getting married. However, living together, which is basically commitment with an escape route, is on the rise.  Women crave commitment to feel safe, secure, wanted and special and cohabitation allows men to give a false sense of those things, without a concrete commitment.

2. Communication: Women want their feelings to be heard and understood, not solved. We want to be able to talk to our loved one and share our life.  Men are naturally programmed to problem-solve.  If they hear an issue, they want to analyze it and  ultimately find a solution.  Shakespeare nailed it on the head when he said, “women speak two languages- one of which is verbal.”  This means that half of the communication women speak is through listening.

3. Emotionally Stable: Women want to be the emotional one in the relationship. Confidence and independence are very appealing traits in a man, insecurity and needy are not. Most women look for a strong partner they can lean on. At the same time, women want a man to tell her, and show her how important she is to him.  This can include flowers, a sweet phone call or a random text in the middle of the day.  Truly, the smallest gestures can mean the most.

4. Confidence: There is a fine line between confidence and cockiness.  Women want a man that exhibits confidence in public and can easily handle difficult situations. It takes a confident man to be secure and respectful. Observe how he treats you in public compared to at home, and decide if it’s true confidence, or a little boy hiding in men’s clothing.

5. Responsible: Women want a secure man who admits when he makes a mistake, and takes responsibility for his own actions. One of the meanings of the word “husband” is someone who skillfully manages his household. A manager takes responsibility. If a man wants to be seen as a worthy partner he has to show leadership. When he sees a situation that needs to be dealt with, he should step forward and handle it; women admire that.

6. Respectful (especially to his Mom) I’m sure you’ve heard this before, but the way a man treats his mom has a direct correlation to how he might treat you.  The female role that a mother plays in her son’s life can be the most stable example he has.  During his life he has seen his mother deal with many issues that women go through, and how she has responded and therefore expected to be comforted.

7. Sense of Humor: Women love a man that can be funny and make them laugh. It does not mean that women want their men to be jokers but there are many times that laughter is the best medicine. Women are emotional creatures that like being happy and enjoy light and joyous moments. A good sense of humor along with confidence and a positive outlook can trigger the right buttons in a woman.

8. Honesty: Honesty is what builds trust in a relationship. It is much easier to forgive your man’s mistakes, if they are honest and upfront to begin with. Hiding things and dishonesty infuriates women, allowing the unsettled feeling of betrayal to suffocate the relationship.

9. Driven: Women want an ambitious guy that is in control but not controlling. They are driven by goals, and are result-oriented. They don’t let anything stop them and have a genuine desire to excel in a particular area in their life.  Whether it is in the office, or a weekend softball league, they commit, they show up, and they succeed.

10. Romantic: Women love to be wooed.  Women want to be pursued and courted by a man eager to win their attention.  Women want to feel desired and important during the “honeymoon” stage of the relationship, and eventually a feeling of security in a long-term commitment. All too often, these little gestures fade with time. Be sure to keep the spark alive and don’t be afraid to send gestures to your man either!

Source: Naija.ng

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