Signs you will see if you are in love with the wrong person

As beautiful as love is, everything could go totally wrong if you end up falling in love with the wrong person or entrusting the affairs of your heart to someone not worthy enough.  

So many people have been caught in this web and are stuck; being in love with the wrong person does not mean you would not have all the delightful and tickling sensations often experienced by those who are in love.

You are most likely to feel the fluttering of the butterflies in your stomach and the customary shivers in the spine if you are a romantic. However, there would always be this feeling of guilt every time you remember how wrong it is for you to be in love with your partner at that time.

You would also have to worry about the consequences of your actions and how grave they could be. Many people regret falling in love with their partners long before they ever break up. Some feel trapped and do not know if it would be appropriate walking out of that relationship after all the binding events they might have been through together.

Giving your heart to a man who could never be with you for one reason or the other could be an example; having an illicit affair with someone could also cause you that kind of heartache no matter the depth of your love.

There are a whole lot of things that could be responsible for falling in love with the wrong person. The variation in these events would not change the signs and feelings you would have if you have given your heart to the wrong person.

Find below some of the unmistakable signs you will notice once you have fallen in love with the wrong person:

1. When you are filled with doubts

Despite being in love with someone you have always known for ages, you may still have this feeling of uncertainty when you reflect on issues.

The uncertainties you feel spring up as a result of the behavior your partner puts up when with you. Most people trust their instinct as it has never failed them.

Thus, when you are filled with fear despite being in love with a person, it could be a sign you have given the wrong person your heart.

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2. When you are unhappy

Your happiness comes first when it comes to relationships; whatever deprives you of your happiness is definitely not worth doing.

One thing that would let you know how wrong you have been with falling in love with a person is sadness. Being in love should fill your heart with joy and make you want to spend the rest of your life having happy moments.

But when you are constantly in pain and heart torn over the decisions you have taken with that person, it is a big sign you have given your heart to the wrong person.

3. When you constantly worry about the future

Being in love is definitely exciting; you find yourself longing for more and enjoying the company of your partner.

A day apart could be like a thousand years to you; but when you do not look forward to being with the person you have fallen in love with and given your heart to, there is a big problem.

Dreading what the future holds with your partner is a sign you have totally missed it and have entrusted your heart to the wrong person. It should be noted that some people fall in love just for the fun of it; their weird way of passing time.

4. When your partner's love for you becomes an obsession

Love is liberating. Being in love should not deprive you of making your life choices and doing the things you want to do.

However, when your partner cannot let you do things on your own or be free, love becomes a confinement.

One true sign you have fallen in love with the wrong person is when you feel trapped; no one wants to be caught in some funny emotional web that could choke the daylight out of them.

5. When you constantly struggle to keep them

Love becomes a point of pain when you constantly have to fight to have the person you love. It is a weary exercise that would subject you to emotional trauma and heart aches at the long run.

As much as you love your partner and desire to be with them forever, it is important for them to show the same enthusiasm when it comes to you. It is quite possible for you to lose yourself in the process of struggling to keep them and being everything they want.

It is exhilarating fighting for someone who does not care whether he or she loses you. If this is your situation, then you have fallen for the wrong person.

6. You basically hold the relationship

There are some relationships in which some individuals are responsible for putting things together.

If you are always trying hard to make things work without your partner's contribution, then there is the likelihood that you would get tired someday and give up the fight.

You should not be the only one fighting; your partner should be ready to fight for you and invest in the relationship too. If this is what you put up with, you have given your heart to the wrong person.

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7. You become emotionally drained

The moment you notice you are always drained emotionally as a result of the energy you invest into your relationship, then there is a problem.

Being in love with a worthy partner should alienate your fears and help you stay focused; but as soon as you start to feel your life is complicated because you are in love, that is a sign you have fallen in love with the wrong person.

Source: Legit.ng