Here's a story we got from our reader:
"I am a man of 50. I beg you to publish my story for people to see and maybe tell me what to do.
My wife and I were married for 32 years. Our marriage was set up by our parents, but ultimately, we fell in love. My wife was a kind and intelligent, well-educated lady from a good family. The thing is, we never had penetrative sex – it hurt her to try. We had a good life... But my wife died earlier this year. And now I'm anxious to have sex before I'm too old. But I feel Lord might punish me for such thoughts, and my relatives wouldn't approve of me having a mistress... What should I do?"